bug:channelList doesn't stop watching channels that we are removed from #2599

Describe the bug

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1. Render a Channel List with the filter to have us as part of the members
2. Leave a Channel
3. Make a User B (some other user that is not you) to send a message to this channel that you just left
4. Now you'll see this channel popping in the list again even tho you're not part of. (Channel persists as watched even tho we are no longer part of it)

But what's funny is that if you refresh, on a initial state we don't listen on channels that we aren't part of so it solves if you refresh.

To Reproduce

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1. Render a Channel List with the filter to have us as part of the members
2. Leave a Channel
3. Make a User B (some other user that is not you) to send a message to this channel that you just left
4. Now you'll see this channel popping in the list again even tho you're not part of. (Channel persists as watched even tho we are no longer part of it)

But what's funny is that if you refresh, on a initial state we don't listen on channels that we aren't part of so it solves if you refresh.

Expected behavior

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When a channel that's on the list, we stop being part of. We shouldn't be watching that channel anymore (because is doesn't match the query anymore)

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Package version

• stream-chat-react:^12.8.1
• stream-chat-css:
• stream-chat-js:^8.48.0

Desktop (please complete the following information):

• OS: [e.g. iOS]Mac OS
• Browser [e.g. chrome, safari] Chrome
• Version [e.g. 22] 131.0.6778.265

Smartphone (please complete the following information):

- Device: [e.g. iPhone6]
- OS: [e.g. iOS8.1]
- Browser [e.g. stock browser, safari]
- Version [e.g. 22]

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